The Parenting Blog
The Parenting Blog
You’ve swaddled, rocked, fed, and sang lullabies until your voice went hoarse—and still, your newborn won’t sleep. Whether it’s catnaps that barely last 20 minutes or waking every hour at night, sleep problems in newborns can push even the calmest parents to the brink.
The truth? These disruptions are normal, but they’re not unsolvable. This guide walks you through the most common newborn sleep issues, why they happen, and exactly how to fix them using practical strategies, expert insights, and reassuring advice.
Unlike adults, newborns don’t yet produce regular levels of melatonin, the hormone that regulates sleep-wake cycles. Their internal clocks (circadian rhythms) are still developing, and their small tummies need frequent feeding. All of this creates the perfect recipe for fragmented sleep.
According to the NHS and sleep researcher Dr. Sarah Blunden, most newborns sleep between 14–17 hours a day—but in unpredictable, short stretches.
These sleep interruptions are often driven by:
Important Note: If your baby’s sleep seems unusually disturbed—like prolonged screaming, or difficulty staying asleep beyond 20 minutes—it’s wise to check in with a paediatrician to rule out medical concerns like reflux or food sensitivities.
Pro Tip: Wake your baby gently from long late-afternoon naps to avoid a wide-awake bedtime.
Important Tip: Sleep cycles in newborns last only 40–50 minutes. Some waking is normal—but your goal is to help them link cycles.
If you’re unsure how to respond during sudden regressions, our guide on handling night wakings like a pro offers targeted support.
Sleep isn’t just about bedtime—it’s a 24-hour rhythm. That means how your baby naps during the day impacts their night sleep. Overtired babies often fight sleep harder, not fall into it faster.
Laura, a new mum from Liverpool, recalls: “My daughter’s naps were a mess. Once I shortened her wake times and made naps darker and quieter, her nights instantly improved.”
Another helpful tip? Start your baby’s day at the same time each morning—even if the night was rough. This consistency anchors their sleep-wake rhythm.
You can also learn how to build a robust sleep foundation with our 7-day newborn bedtime routine guide.
1. Why does my baby wake up 20 minutes after falling asleep?
They may be hitting a light sleep phase and can’t link cycles. Try adjusting the wake window or soothing them back without picking them up.
2. How can I tell if my baby is overtired?
Overtired babies often cry, rub their eyes, or turn their heads away from interaction. They also fall asleep then wake quickly.
3. Is it okay to let my baby nap in the pram or carrier?
Yes, but mix it with some cot naps to help build independent sleep skills.
4. Should I feed my baby every time they wake up at night?
In the early weeks, yes. But over time, watch for hunger cues—sometimes they wake for comfort.
5. Will my baby ever sleep through the night?
Eventually! Most babies start sleeping longer stretches between 3–6 months, but every baby is different.
Sleep troubles are not a sign you’re doing anything wrong—they’re part of the journey. By understanding what your baby needs, creating the right environment, and applying practical techniques, you can ease many of the most frustrating sleep disruptions.
Keep going, stay consistent, and trust that improvement is possible—even if it doesn’t happen overnight.
Start by adjusting one small habit today. Big changes often begin with just one nap.